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Regret Me Not Project Day 122: The Innocent Bystander

When you succeed at changing something, there are people who want to call you out because the change you’ve created isn’t perfect. Maybe you made some people upset. Or a part of what you were trying to change failed.

And I get that. Success is often presented without an accompanying story of failure, painting an unrealistically rosy picture of what change looks like.

But I also believe that perfection is less important than action.

During my time at Girl Scouts, I was in charge of a dying organization. One whose membership had been declining for ten years and whose relevancy was continually slipping.

I always felt that I had no option but to do something, anything, to set the wheels of change in motion, to put out the fire on the burning platform.

I know that not every action I took was perfect.  There were big ideas that couldn’t quite get off the ground; things on my to do list of organizational development that never quite got done; and things that I thought were great ideas at the time that turned out to fit much more comfortably in the “worst idea ever” category.

But at least I was doing something.

It’s like trying to save someone’s life. The person who steps in and takes action, even if their actions are imperfect, is the only one who has a chance of making a difference.

The inactive bystander on the other hand? It turns out that they aren’t so innocent.

If you haven’t failed it means you haven’t tried.

2 Responses »

  1. thanks. i seem to have this issue with perfection, which i was contemplating the other day. my need to be perfect, have the perfect answer, do the perfect action has led to the very thing you talk about – inaction. but, here’s the thing i realized after reading your post. the perfection thing is not about being perfect but about being successful…in other people’s eyes! that’s a huge revelation to me. i have continually stopped myself from doing or even trying anything because (at my core) i have been scared of what others will think of me. so i get it (not just intellectually, but deep inside) i don’t have to be perfect, all i need to do is just take action and screw it if my action is a mistake. sorry if my babbling here makes no sense. but i did want to say thank you for this short, eloquent and needed post.

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  2. Pingback: Courage to Start « Jessica H. Lawrence

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